Got up to the boat Friday evening. Nat was already there. Mary was working. William was in Detroit for a bike race. The weather was beautiful – sunny and a nice temperature. Got the boat all washed down and enjoyed the evening. Will got to the boat about 11:00pm.
Saturday the weather was as good or better than Friday’s – just perfect. Since we had an engagement Sunday, we had my Fathers Day breakfast Saturday – sadly without Mary. We took the boat round to Sarnia Bay and took a transient slip for a couple of hours to visit the restaurant there. George and Jen came around with Iron Jenny. We tied up at the end of Y dock – stern to stern with a Post sport fisher. Thankfully, despite the lack of practice this season I managed a clean, near perfect docking much to the relief of the owner of the Post who stood protectively on his swim platform. After breakfast we enjoyed the pool there and just relaxed. Finally we cast off about 1:30 PM and ran down to Stag Island, looped around the island and back to Bridgeview. We had a full throttle run – hit a solid 30 knots so Plan B seems to be running strong.
Sunday June 19th
June 19th we attended the memorial for my younger cousin, Stephen Lawrence, who passed away May 31st after a courageous battle with cancer at age 47. Steve found out about a year before that he has the insidious disease that had already taken our grandfather and his dad. He lived that last year large – hella-skiing, visiting the British open in Scotland, Mayan ruins etc. He always had a zest for life but his courage, and optimism as he dealt with this disease is inspiring. He has left us far too soon.
Taken early April this year - Steven is in black shirt and jeans.
The memorial was fitting and touching and as up-beat as a loss like this can be. Kim, his lovely wife was strong and courageous throughout the event. I am sure he is up there now enjoying awesome rounds of golf and deep powder snow-mobiling.
We are told his favorite song was Born Free by Kid Rock. Well, something like this can't help but make you think about living for the day - there is no promise of a tomorrow. So I have below the words of one of my favorite songs by Nickleback – “If today was your last day”
"If Today Was Your Last Day"
My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day's a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less traveled by
That first step you take is the longest stride
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day
Against the grain should be a way of life
What's worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts 'cause there's no second try
So live like you'll never live it twice
Don't take the free ride in your own life
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreamin' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it's never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
'Cause you can't rewind a moment in this life
Let nothin' stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreamin' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
Link below is to the song / video on YouTube
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCZCfOygt_w
Stephen, you will be truly missed and the huge gathering at you memorial is proof of that………………………..

This is some of the sooty oily ash sitting on the upper dash by the cabin door. It went everywhere!